How to Use the Internet for Foreplay

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By Yohana Desta2014-07-24 11:03:12 UTC

Calling all couples: The Internet is your new best friend when it comes to foreplay.

From secret Pinterest boards to sexy subreddits, there are plenty of sites that can dole out useful relationship tips. If you're uncomfortable talking about foreplay, these sites will help break the ice.

Here are six ways to use the Internet for all your NSFW needs.

See also: 9 Apps to Keep Couples Hot

1. Share a secret Pinterest board.

Search Pinterest tags like "romance" to find flirty images.

Sure, when most couples think "Pinterest," flowery dream weddings and proposals come to mind. But there are additional ways to use the visual social network.

Create a shared Pinterest board with your partner. Then, throughout your day, the two of you can pin photos, sex tips and suggestions to your board, all for your partner's secret viewing pleasure.

To get started, check out boards on sex tips and foreplay.

2. Share a secret Tumblr.

Just like Pinterest, you can use Tumblr to post photos and sex tips that excite you. Sharing a secret blog with your partner will open you up to more of their interests they might not always verbalize.

As an added bonus, you can follow blogs that give you sex tips or advice.

3. Stroll through subreddits.

Head over to Reddit and visit subreddits like r/Sex, which is full of users sharing NSFW fantasies and sex tips you can slyly send to your partner.

Plus, the two of you can post your own questions to Reddit if you're looking for suggestions and want see what the Internet comes up with. For example, some partners use the site to get foreplay tips and learn about gender preferences during foreplay (but remember, Reddit can have a dark, creepy side — tread lightly).

4. Tackle a calendar challenge.

Plenty of sex-driven sites offer challenges for couples to help them become more inventive in the bedroom. For example, Cosmopolitan challenged one of its writers to complete a 77-day sex position challenge with her partner, trying out new moves every day.

The writer did it, and wrote extensively about each experience. If you decide to go through with the challenge, you can see how she tackled it and what suggestions she has, so you can tweak some of the moves.

To put your own spin on it, share a Google Calendar and schedule in the daily challenge you're interested in trying. That way, you'll have something to anticipate when you see each other. Cosmo also offers a list of R-rated foreplay tips provided by readers, which you can add to your daily challenge.

5. Download some steamy apps.

Since your phone is basically an extension of your hand, use apps to constantly stay in touch with your boo.

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  Snapchat: You knew this one was coming. Snapchat is the perfect way to send your partner seductive photos that don't last longer than 10 seconds. (But remember, screenshots can be taken and that sexy image can be replayed. Think twice so you can be tasteful instead of going too far.)

  
  


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  Kindu: This one is for the NSFW moments. Kindu offers up romantic scenarios and role-play suggestions for couples. Going through them together, you can select yes, no or maybe to the ideas, and find out what your partner is secretly interested in. It's great for conversations that might be too uncomfortable to have out loud. It's $1.99 for Android and iOS.

  
  


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  Avocado: This is a cuter way to constantly stay in touch throughout the day. Free for Android, iOS and the web, Avocado is made for couples who want to chat privately, as well as share images, videos, calendars and lists. You can also share your location, and get notifications if your partner's phone battery is dying. It also allows you to share virtual "hugs" or "kisses," when you can't think of anything to say.

  
  

6. Play Truth or Dare.

The game you played long ago at parties can take on a new life for couples. The site Couples Truth or Dare generates random truth or dare questions to give each other. There's also a "Testing the Waters" category, with which you can both go through and answer questions about sexual preferences, but can only see the answers that you both said yes to. You can also tailor the truths and dares by selecting whether they were "too easy" or "too extreme," to ensure the questions are striking the right balance.

Sites like Love Panky also offer a list of racy truth or dare questions you can pick and choose at your leisure.

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